A blog dedicated to show different views surrounding the BDSM life, written by a Master and directed towards both slaves and masters.
Sunday, March 23, 2014
Q & A - What is the worth of a training
For many years I have called myself a slave trainer
I have trained slaves in the ways of servitude and submission, exploring their fears and desires to the extent they can take
It is my belief that a slave can fit in whatever life his Master wants him to, be that as a pleasure toy, a pain toy, a dog, a servant or a mere object that adorns the house where your Master resides in
But do you think you can live a life that way
Every path should start with full knowledge
Knowledge of the reasons that push you towards this life, of the rewards that you can expect from living it and of the expectations of the one you will serve
Nothing comes without sacrifice
And the slave is the one who must sacrifice the most
Why I, as a Master and a possible Owner, would be willing to offer the trainings to those that may never become mine is sometimes hard to explain, but I'll sum it up for you
I like doing it
If I did not like to play this game the words you are reading now would never have been written
Remember nevertheless that there is more to these words that needs to be learned
Words do not offer all the dimensions that this knowledge hides
A slave has to truly understand them in the flesh
Why would I want to own a slave that knows nothing of what it means to be a slave nor what it implies
Why would any master want that
Moulding a slave takes time
Many years in some cases, with success many times never arriving
That dedication to a slave is something that does not come cheap, so the better prepared a slave comes into his Master's hand the easier it will be to take him, trimming the edges instead of the whole body and the most enjoyment the Master will be able to take from his slave in the time he possesses him
Someone has to take the first step in that preparation
And I just happened to be on your path this time as it has happened to other masters in the past
The more you hold on to something the easier it is for it to fall from your hand. In my view that also happens to slaves
A heart has to be given by your own free will and no inexperienced slave will be able to do that
A strong and determined hand has to hold the pen that writes the contract that will change his life forever
My training is intended to help a slave achieve that
It will not be my hand holding a slave down but the one setting you free when all that needs to be taught is done
It will be by your own free will that you will return for the next step in your life
I will not keep your chain warm for your arrival as you may never return
But if your heart is warm to the moments and emotions shared from the experience then I will be happy for the both of us
That is the reward in the teachings that I seek
All else is an extra
A cherry on top of the cake
Feel free to apply to me or any other master willing to take you
It is better to know and dislike it than to never learn and forever live in doubt
Perhaps you will like it
2 comments:
Sir, I feel you have captured beautifully and eloquently the view not only of a Slave Trainer, but also of a slave.
As slaves many of us are driven to be controlled and moulded, mentally and often physically, by another. We WANT to feel that lack of control; we desire to be shaped by another. In short we do it because we enjoy the feeling it gives us - we are the mirror to our Master. We are the tool by which he derives his pleasure; which in turn gives us pleasure and fulfilment.
Many will never understand our slave mentality or why we abase ourselves and thank our Madters for pain, humiliation and degradation.
But our Masters will understand - and that is all a slave needs?
andy
Masters and slaves are complex beings so there is not one answer to that question but many
I say many times that BDSM is a Game, but the life we live is also a Game
Both games can force upon you taking covers over your true self, but BDSM is the only Game where your emotions can be exposed truthfully in the open
That is the most liberating thing you can ever encounter in your life
Not being in touch with your emotions makes you afraid of feeling
You may enjoy the substitutes of real emotions with what you have on tv, but it is not the same as feeling them in the flesh
Masters should understand the value of emotions
Emotions change slaves
Only when you live them all will you be able to know the true value of what you feel in your life
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