Age

Locked in the circle of life, we are born, we age and we die



No one can escape that



The measurement of age is based in years, that is, the number of times that the earth has rotated around the sun, from a specific point in it's trajectory, until it resumes that relative point in space





If you measure that as the number of times the earth revolves around you, you are waaay too old to be reading, or even to be alive



Ashes to ashes, dust to dust



May mother Earth accept in its bosom what the living cannot





Time can be divided into smaller portions, such as months, weeks, days, hours, minutes, seconds, to infinite fractions of the second





I suppose you don't know the milliseconds of your date of birth, do you



I don't know either... and I don't care





Time can be aggregated in bigger units, such as quarters of centuries, centuries, millennium and eons



But as some Albert once said, time is relative, based on our perception of it



Apart from the international measurement units there are also relative units of measurement, based on the average living standard for your country and the current time that you lived in and on the age you have, compared to the one you are measuring



For the caveman, being able to achieve 35 would be to be considered old as in the their twenties most would die from sickness, spoiled or poisonous food or the occasional encounter with a beast that would feast on their flesh



In a thousand years, if mankind still exists, we will probably be able to be achieve the millennium mark and the oldest living men that inhabits the Earth at this moment would be nothing more than a newborn to him





The birthday celebration of a millennial man would be a problem with the cake as it would be more candle than actual cake






As for your personal perception of time, it is not hard to grasp



As a rule of thumb, anyone with less than a quarter of your current age would be considered young and a quarter above would be considered old





I leave you with this small mathematical example (even if you failed elementary school you should be able to grasp this with a cheap pocket calculator or your dumbphone) 




For someone with the current age of 12,


Young < 12 - 12 / 4


Old > 12 - 12 / 4


being young would fall under 9 and old above 15




For someone with the current age of 21,


Young < 21 - 21 / 4


Old > 21 + 21 / 4


being young would fall under 14 and old above 26




For someone with the current age of 40,


Young < 40 - 40 / 4


Old > 40 + 40 / 4


being young would fall under 30 and old above 50




For someone with the current age of 60,


Young < 60 - 60 / 4


Old > 60 + 60 / 4



being young would fall under 45 and old above 75




Based on these examples, for the juvenile out there searching for someone your age would mean searching within a 12 year age interval



As for someone like me would be within a 20 year interval





Considering the age at which gays begin to come out and the current average population age, my chances of finding someone if I used such criteria would mean a much better chance to find the one



But I don't use that rule, luckily for some, as my age range is much bigger than that






There are three criteria for calculating age:


- Legal - the number of years passed since the birth date inscribed on your identity card


- Physical - based on your bodily appearance where does it fit when compared to the general population


- Mental - based on the way that you act, talk and do when compared to the rest




The first age is binding, while the other two are subject to personal interpretation





As a curiosity, the age on my profile and blog is my real legal age (I update it every year)





At this current time (2017/08/09), doing a self examination, I would calculate on the three criteria as:


- Legal as 40 years old


- Physical as 30 years old (could easily pass as that age, shaven and with my hair dyed, if one day I decided to do that)


- Mental as at least 100 years old (I sometimes think I am too old for what I see around me)


Doing an average of the three criteria would put me at about 57 years




Using this same criteria with a case I got some time ago:


- Legal as 50


- Physical as 55 (looked older than he actually was)


- Mental as 14 (behaved as a kid)


That gives the average age of 40 years, which is what he had posted on his profile


So doing a correlation, I would say that this is the reason why there seems to be such an age difference between the profile and reality


That reason being a matter of different criteria... or as they say, lying with all the teeth of their mouth





Nevertheless regarding the age interval for the age of 56 the age range would be somewhere between 42 and 70... which incidentally is very close to those that I have been more attracted to in these past few years



But nothing is written in stone


Some stones hide brute diamonds waiting to be cut and shaped, while others just hide... some loose screws





Placing limits on those you seek is what it is



Placing limits





Limits exist to be tested and broken



And amongst those that make no sense to me are age, race and nationality



To deny yourself the chance to know someone based on only these three criteria seems unreasonable



After knowing you may say yes or no, but to shut yourself to the possibility will just be your loss





Everyone has something to offer that may or may not fit into what you want and need



Serious and experienced masters are usually older as experience comes with time and trial, which not always correlates to their legal age



Serious slaves come with a deep introspection as to why they want to be slaves and that can happen even at an early age





There are serious slaves and masters everywhere in the planet



All you have to do is look for them, make a choice and go for it if they fit what you seek




Based on my age, you are still young



But I will welcome your contact nevertheless

The Menu - Explained

I once set up a wish list to filter out wannabe slaves that is as follows


I seek slaves:


a) Within the 21-59 age range
b) Fit (slim, average, defined or muscular) with a BMI (body mass index) under 24 and under 90kg
c) Non smoker and non drug user (that also includes poppers)
d) Passive or versatile in sex
e) Portuguese or English speakers
f) Healthy (that means properly medicated if you have any condition that requires it)
g) Dance / yoga / military / martial arts background

Item g) is preferential. The rest is not


Every master has a preference regarding what slaves they want


My tastes are simple, compared to others out there as I bear little restrictions regarding age and race, although regarding genders I only take male slaves


My restrictions exist for practical reasons and this is my little explanation as to why they exist


a) Within the 21-59 age range

Anyone below legal age should not participate in this game for obvious reasons


In fact I consider most slaves below the age of 30 to be unreliable regarding true slave training, but I still have the expectation that one will one day prove me wrong


Above 60 there are issues regarding fitness of both body and mind to consider, but I have had slaves gone above the 50 barrier that would put to shame many twenties and thirties

b) Fit (slim, average, defined or muscular) with a BMI (body mass index) under 24 and under 90kg


How to see if someone is fit... well there is a thing called BMI - body mass index that can give an estimate on to how you are in terms of health


There are many sites that can give you such information such as this one


It is not a perfect indicator, but a good enough approximation without seeing any picture of you or having a misguided body information on the profile


Many write their body type as defined being slim and others write defined or muscled being merely fat

I will not delve into the reasons for this, but it happens very often


My game is one directed at healthy performers and if I want to do all practices such as forced workouts, long bondage sessions with tricky suspensions and intense emotional episodes, I do not want to concern myself with you having a heart attack in the middle of a session or having to stop the training because you cannot move any more

Regarding the 90 kg restriction I am a lightweight master and although I am stronger than most would assume, I know my limits and cannot vouch for the resistance of my equipment if you go beyond that weight or that I will be able to prevent you from falling if that happens


I take my slave's security very seriously and I will not place you in any life threatening practice

c) Non smoker and non drug user (that also includes poppers)

Some find the idea of being smoked at or smoking during a session enjoyable, but I do not


I am a non-smoker and as such I despise the idea of hosting smokers that do so inside my house


This is a non-negotiable term that I set forth


Regarding the legal and illegal drugs, you can also take a look at a previous post I made regarding the why I do not allow them

d) Passive or versatile in sex

Even though BDSM is not about sex, I also enjoy myself having sex with slaves from time to time


As I play the active in this game, I will not give much attention to your cock, except perhaps to torture it


The exchange of sexual energy between the participants in this game is also an interesting play to do


I may be able to live without fucking you in a training, but if I am ever to own you that is a barrier you must break before being taken

e) Portuguese or English speakers

Breaking barriers is a part of the game, but if we can't communicate properly that won't be that easy to accomplish


The contract of submission is hand written as the words are dictated to you


If you can't write or understand what is written in the contract you will sign, what is the point of having you


The first training period is too short to be losing time trying to figure out how to convey my message to you


That is the time when I will have to establish the connection with you and when I will have to focus my attention more intensively in you to make sure all goes smoothly


Success or failure hang by a thread on the first slave training


I do not wish to risk it when we both have much to lose



f) Healthy (that means properly medicated if you have any condition that requires it)

I have had throughout the years slaves with HIV, diabetes and other chronic illnesses, physical disabilities and mental conditions


There are special cares to be taken so that our actions pose the least amount of risk to our lives and to those around us


In my point of view, living a life to the fullest does not mean living foolishly


The more time you live the more experiences you can get and the longer you can share a life with someone, being that a Master or a partner


Regarding sex, I do not do unsafe sexual activities with my slaves, owned or not


Respect among players means caring for the safety of each other


If I don't like your performance, I want you to leave with what you have and not take souvenirs that can physically and emotionally attach you to me


If I do like you, I want you to stay with me as long as you can







That being said, the barrier is not the illness but the man that holds it


I have been able to cope with them without any problem


Being able to accept it and to live with it is a job that must be done by you alone


Not being informed prior to your visit of any condition that you have will represent a lack of trust that may terminate your connection to me


Not being medicated and posing a danger to me and to yourself will not be tolerated

g) Dance / yoga / military / martial arts background


The perfect slave is one that is able to follow any orders


That means being able to endure difficult situations, tough positions, an hierarchy Master/slave even without active enforcement and being able to live with mental and physical rituals that have to be performed by you during your slave life


As such, having previously endured activities that demand constant routines and continued practice can give you the edge needed to interest me and therefore allow you to experience more on your training towards that goal


It is nevertheless a "nice to have", but we both can live without it

Having said all this, I have had slaves in the past that did not fit my requirements



The standards are set, but I allow small deviations if I feel in you the motivation to go forward and I can see myself as someone that can put you on the correct path


Nevertheless the more you progress in my trainings, the more I will demand from you


That means that any "slack" I give on the first contact will disappear before the final stage comes

My path is never easy, but it is always fun

A new Path: My offer

Every slave seeks a Master



If you have read the remaining of this blog and my words have touched you


Then perhaps what I offer can fulfill your desire



To become a slave


My slave



I do not have the expectation that you are able to fulfill my notion of a true Slave


But I will train you to become better in what you do



To become what you seek there is a price to be paid


A proof


A proof of loyalty

A proof of submission

A proof of ownership


A collar


To be worn for the duration of your Contract




The form, shape and location of the collar is debatable as long as

- it cannot be removed by you

- it can hold my lock



If no objections are risen, then it will be my choice

A chain around your neck



The duration can be one of the following


- 2 weeks for the 3 initiation sessions of 2h each

- 1 weekend for the 24h session

- 1 week

- 1 month

- 1 year

- Forever



Each phase accomplished will grant you a new one

In each there will be a different Contract


With different rules, presented prior to your visit



It is up to you to decide if you want to go to the next phase or to continue facing the same duration

I have no expectations regarding that



The first duration (the 3 initiation sessions) will not be enforced on foreign slaves that want to come, but it can be arranged under this format if so desired


The training period will follow the order mentioned above



The chance to be  my slave and servant permanently comes under very special terms so there is no point in ever asking me that until your training is complete


Only then will you be able to understand what it truly means to be a slave and the rewards you will gain and expectations that you will have to fulfill




I train slaves to perfect them, not to own them


But I will only own those that I train




You will have to come to me by your own means


Food and lodging will be provided for the duration of the training



If you can fulfill the training periods to my satisfaction I will offer you one trip a year to visit me



I have to remember you nevertheless that you must fit the requirements that I state here



I am not here to give you what you want

I am here to show you what you need to know

What you have to learn to be a slave



I am here to take you and guide you




If you desire casual play then you have plenty more offers of masters out there


But you will not have mine