Faulty design pattern

As time goes by a pattern continues to emerge among those that come to contact me


This pattern comes in the form of an invitation

A nice face, a good body, promises of commitment and evolution

Words are exchanged and interest is risen

Then contact is lost

Profile erased

Only to appear again and again



This is a curious pattern

But a foolish one



Nothing good is achieved in this path

Building a profile to expose yourself demands time

Making the connections with those that may suit you demands more time and more effort

And the cycle continues


You may think that because there are a large amount of profiles and people that offer their services that may suit your needs that you will find among them one that fulfills all your desires

You will find that there are a finite amount of people that you may contact that fit your needs

You may try it with a premium account and make the search criteria to your exact specifications

From those remove all that are too far away for you to reach

Then remove those that you have already contacted and found to be imperfect in your eyes

Your world will become smaller and smaller



You may think that anonymity will protect you so that you can try again and again until you find what you are looking for

But you are mistaken


This pattern is recognizable

Age, location, photos, ideas, words within words, contacts

They will in the end give you away



Time goes by quickly

Each time you destroy what you made time is lost

Each time the pattern is repeated it will be more easily recognized

And as a disease you will be put somewhere where you will make no harm

A fake



At each new try more doors are closed

Until there are no more doors to open or no more strength to open another door



What is true survives the passing of time


Lies and deceits are rarely written in history books

Those that do will never be seen with good eyes however good the intentions might have been


My advice to you that live in this pattern

Set your goals smaller but achievable


Don't ask for perfection

Be perfect


Forge yourself into what you want to be or surrender yourself to those that can take you to your full potential


But try

For real



And don't waste my time