Saturday, January 26, 2013

The slave's Bill of Rights and Responsibilities


Bill of Rights


A slave is entitled to have the following rights:

- The right to have an identity and a life other than that of a slave

- The right to have desires, fears and feelings

- The right to have your physical and mental well being

- The right to have possessions of your own

- The right to love and be loved

- The right to belong to someone

- The right to set the boundaries of any relationship you take

- The right to submit by your own free will

- The right to your privacy

- The right to say no

- The right to fail

- The right to quit

- The right to relinquish all of your rights



Bill of Responsibilities


A slave who assumes a Contract must fulfill the following responsibilities to his Master:

- To obey Him

- To devote your time to fulfilling His needs

- To live up to the maximum extent of your capabilities to His expectations

- To accept that He is more than just your Master and has a life outside of BDSM

- To fulfill the terms of the Contract you sign

- To protect and care for Him

- To be proud of what you are






Sunday, January 6, 2013

A new Path: My offer




Every slave seeks a Master



If you have read the remaining of this blog and my words have touched you


Then perhaps what I offer can fulfill your desire



To become a slave


My slave



I do not have the expectation that you are able to fulfill my notion of a true Slave


But I will train you to become better in what you do



To become what you seek there is a price to be paid


A proof


A proof of loyalty

A proof of submission

A proof of ownership


A collar


To be worn for the duration of your Contract




The form, shape and location of the collar is debatable as long as

- it cannot be removed by you

- it can hold my lock



If no objections are risen, then it will be my choice

A chain around your neck



The duration can be one of the following


- 2 weeks for the 3 initiation sessions of 2h each

- 1 weekend for the 24h session

- 1 week

- 1 month

- 1 year

- Forever



Each phase accomplished will grant you a new one

In each there will be a different Contract


With different rules, presented prior to your visit



It is up to you to decide if you want to go to the next phase or to continue facing the same duration

I have no expectations regarding that



The first duration (the 3 initiation sessions) will not be enforced on foreign slaves that want to come, but it can be arranged under this format if so desired


The training period will follow the order mentioned above



The chance to be  my slave and servant permanently comes under very special terms so there is no point in ever asking me that until your training is complete


Only then will you be able to understand what it truly means to be a slave and the rewards you will gain and expectations that you will have to fulfill




I train slaves to perfect them, not to own them


But I will only own those that I train




You will have to come to me by your own means


Food and lodging will be provided for the duration of the training



If you can fulfill the training periods to my satisfaction I will offer you one trip a year to visit me



I have to remember you nevertheless that you must fit the requirements that I state here



I am not here to give you what you want

I am here to show you what you need to know

What you have to learn to be a slave



I am here to take you and guide you




If you desire casual play then you have plenty more offers of masters out there


But you will not have mine







Saturday, January 5, 2013

The true Slave



He accepts the mu, the emptiness, devoid of desires and fears


He has no identity. He has no place of origin and no place to return to


He follows the six paths. Accepting what he finds


His only desire is to serve. His only fear is not serving again


His favorite bondage is the Contract


He feels. He does not care what he feels, but for whom he feels


He feels pleasure. Pleasure in serving Him


He loves. He loves His Master


For that Love he sacrifices everything. He has nothing. He cares for nothing


His only care is his Master


He is a soldier. He follows orders


Any order. All orders. He complies


He is unbound by standards. He is bound by His wish


He lives to serve. He serves


He knows that this road will guide him until his death or to his death. He does not care for the cause


He cares for the path. He believes in that choice


He is a Slave


He is Free






The s&M Relationship



This is probably the dream of every slave


There isn't a set of rules in terms of what happens and how it will work. It is up to the Master & slave to define how this will function

The relationship exists when there is a connection that is maintained between the slave and the Master for a longer period than a couple of weeks


If there are two distinct categories than can be mixed



The outdoor slave:

- Set for regular meetings, free to have a personal life but bound by an external element to maintain the connection

Usually a collar, chastity device, blackmail, etc


The indoor slave:

- A resident of the house of the Master, and usually goes around being a toy and/or a servant for Him



As in any relationship, it takes two to maintain it


For those considering the possibility of offering/wanting an indoor slave, there are things you must consider


- Having a permanent slave demands time, dedication and resources as you will have another mouth to feed, even if just scraps

Besides that you also have to know that the longer you have a slave, the less are his abilities to rejoin the "normal" world

Another aspect to consider is that if you have the slave in your house how will you present the slave to your visitors, specially non s&M friends and family

Beyond all this if you want to maintain him, there are health aspects that will be required even if all goes well



- Being a permanent slave means that you subject yourself to your Master desires

There is no turning back

As you lose yourself in His hands, your grasp of reality changes

Nothing you did will seem real and it may not seem real again when you return

At the same there are questions regarding your "normal" life that you will have to tend to from time to time such as personal events (family, bank, health checks) among other things



This is not something to take lightly either way

You have to be sure you REALLY want to be/to have a slave



Another aspect to consider is how you will be able to maintain the part of slave/Master for a long period of time

As time progresses there is the tendency to forget the parts being played and the s&M slowly dissolves into just being a relationship where there is occasional hard play



As such, for the relationship to be maintained in the original context, a set of rules must be maintained, properly formalized in the form of the Contract stipulating the roles and the conditions for the relationship to happen and the acceptance of both parties


All aspects should be considered so take your time to set things right before making it happen


Remember that although you will be Master & slave, you are both human

There are flaws in everyone, some easy to fix and other not so easy

And both may discover things that you don't like



The s&M relationship offers nevertheless a chance for unbound discovery and surrender

Where you will be in contact with your most basic self exposed to the other part, him being the Master or the slave



As layers are peeled you will find your true role







Tuesday, January 1, 2013

Your place as my slave




I see all slaves as students

Coming to be trained



My classes are different than what you find in a normal school



You will have only one teacher and there is no uniform

You will learn mostly with your body and the subject of study will be you

You will be my student and your body will be my teaching equipment




For the teaching to occur, certain items are required that you must bring


Trust

Respect

Commitment

Endurance

Submission



Doing a proper training demands many things from me being the two most important ones


Time

Dedication



I try to see slaves as a long time investment

Specially as my time for doing trainings is limited


I nowadays search for constructing something that I can be proud of.

Even if it means destroying it first


You may think that you know what it means to be a slave

What it means to be My slave



A slave serves

That is true


But how do you serve me

What should be your manners

What should you do on what occasions

How can you transform even the harshest things that I do to you into things that can give you pleasure and that way please me

How can you break the barriers that hold you from giving yourself fully to me



Nothing you have done until this day can prepare you for what you are about to face in my hands

You will only be a proud slave if you can survive a full training will me... and be invited to return once again



What I offer does not come cheap on the body or the mind

But the reward may be worth it

And it depends only on you



Make me see in you a stone worth cutting into a diamond with a mind strong enough to take a beating until it shines



My playroom, my teachings and my time can be yours

And only a Contract away from getting it